To be honest its sad. I think there is a difference though. I am a teen and I hate when I get looked at by older guys but then I look at what I am wearing and ask myself am I wearing something that if I were a guy Id give a second look at? But then some times I could be wearing baggy sweats and still get that gross stare. I think where the line is drawn is who are you dressing for? why are you wearing that? and how are you modeling those clothes. Conservative or showy?
I think it is the parents fault to a point. Then to a certian age teen will do what they want. That's when parents have that choice to allow it around the other family members or not.
My way or the highway as my momma always said :)
Just my personal opinion